Tuesday, October 4, 2016

7 reasons why relationships fail

A relationship with trust issues, difference in expectations, incompatible, communication is lacking, abuse, boredom, money issues and selfishness are on life support.  If these relationships don’t figure a way to correct these issue they will be dead-on-arrival.

Trust Issues- Lack of trust or loss of trust in a relationship is very harmful. Without trust the life blood of a relationship which is security starts seeping out and eventually causes the demise of it.  Trust issues such as jealousy, infidelity, possessiveness, lack of reliability and dependability will derail a good relationship so consider honesty whenever lack of trust arises. 

Different Expectations- It is not easy for two people to come together and walk the same walk however, as the newness of a relationship wears off the need to have a central goal.  Therefore figuring out if each person wants the same thing from the relationship.  Does he/she wants a Miss/Mr. Right now or do they want a long-term committed relationship.  Knowing your partners priorities and expectations is pretty important in regards to a relationship.

Compatibility Issues- Relationship compatibility includes intimacy, personality type, how they resolve conflicts. Couples these days have a lot on their plate and with all these responsibilities and the daily frustration that comes with them being compatible in how they approach life.  These shared traits will help to strengthen a relationship when it gets really hard.

Communications Issues- Communication issues is one of the big reasons that couples break-up and even divorce. Where there is respect you will find good communication but once the respect is gone then all is left is contempt and mistrust.  Where ever you find mistrust you will find judgement, resentment, sarcasm and criticism.  These negative communications is like a poison and will kill a relationship really quick.



Abuse/ Life habit abuse Issues- Abuse or life abuse issues will certainly derail a relationship.  The mistreatment of a person is a negative in any type of relationship.  This is also true when it comes to life habit such as a gambling addiction and substance abuse. 

Grown apart/Boredom- A relationship has to be refreshed frequently to prevent it getting stale or your from partner from getting bored.  Life obligations such as children and work are coming obstacle that relationships must endure, however as partners you must remain focus on each other so you don’t become strangers.

Money Issues- The longer a relationship last money comes into play and financial incompatibility can cause great distress.  A couple money issues can tap in fears, trust, feeling safe, power struggles and control.  Learning about how each partner dealings with money and having a concrete and united plan can help to stem any issues before they arises.

Selfishness– When your partner only focuses in his or her own needs and pleasure over their partners needs or for the betterment of the relationship.  When the concern is excessively place on one person in the relationship eventual it will lead to feeling of abandonment and the couple will grow apart. Importance must place on each member of the relationship in order for it to work.


May sure you spend time and energy in maintaining and correcting whatever issues that arises to ensure that you have a long and lasting relationship. 

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